Overcoming Doubt
Overcoming doubt is easy, if you don’t doubt it, of
course. However, most of us entertain an element of doubt in
our minds about being successful whenever we try something
new. In fact, almosteveryone is in some way plagued with
doubt of some kind. Take science, for example. Do you think
all the scientific advancement achieved would have been possible
without questioning the prevailing assumptions at the
beginning? Suppose you want to start a business or launch a
novel project. Are you absolutely sure that it will succeed? There
is always a little fear or doubt at the beginning.
Despite your doubt, you cannot let it keep you from your
ultimate goal. The reason is simple. You must be prepared to risk
failure because it is important for overcoming doubt. Dive right in
to whatever it is without being making rash decisions. Don’t
worry, you won’t dive in without the right gear. You will
analyze all of the possible consequences of your situation and you
will embrace the outcome, whatever it may be. This is the
secret to conquering doubt. Have courage to fight it out and
you are sure to defeat it.
Belief is the enemy of doubt. Learn to think positively and
believe in your ability to be successful. Remember you will succeed
if you think you will and you will fail if you think that too. Your
thoughts are self-fulfilling prophecies so you must stop thinking
negatively. Likewise, never pay heed to the people who discourage
you, who revel in planting doubts in you and who are actually
wolves in sheep’s clothing. Always be in the company of those
people whose thoughts and attitudes to life in general are
positive.
When failure
strikes
You
probably won’t be fortunate to never experience failure in your
life. However, you must understand that it is part of
life. These are the times when failure fills your mind with
doubt and it is hard to muster the confidence you built up earlier
in the process. You can’t let go of your commitment, no
matter how shaken you are by failure. In fact, any setback
should only prompt you to double your resolve to make another
attempt at reaching your goal. In order for this to happen,
train your mind to build your self-control and
self-confidence. Every step towards self confidence helps get
rid of doubt and you will be back to your successful ways once
again.
Healthy doubt Remember some amount of doubt
can always be helpful in gaining wisdom or achieving advancement in
life. But when it becomes a cause for your depression and
inactivity or when it stands like an insurmountable hurdle in your
way to reach your destination, draw upon your energy reserves that
can toughen up your mind. You have to strengthen your will to
succeed at all costs and weaken doubt by all possible means, so
that you will lead a life of fulfillment.
You may succeed because of your doubt or in spite of your doubt.
Or, you may have to accept the inevitable and compromise with
whatever worst-case scenario that presents itself. If this
happens, just change course, re-energize your cylinders and start
afresh on your revised path. Defeat doubt before it defeats
you.
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